The LGBTQ+-parent family
A LGBTQ+-parent family is a family in which at least one parent identifies as lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans* or queer. Some intersex parents also belong to the LGBTQ+-parent families.
Children in these families come into their family in different ways: They may come from previous heterosexual relationships, be born into a same-sex partnership, be adopted or be fostered. Some families are founded abroad through surrogacy or egg donation. In the case of trans* parents, the coming-out may have taken place before or after starting a family.
The legal situation of LGBTQ+-parent families
In recent years, Switzerland has taken important steps to provide legal protection for LGBTQ+-parent families. In 2018, stepchild adoption became possible for same-sex couples, and since July 2022, marriage has been open to all couples. This means that same-sex couples now have full adoption rights and can adopt a child together – a step previously only possible through the stepchild adoption of the partner’s biological child. Lesbian couples now also have access to artificial insemination in Swiss sperm banks, which was previously only allowed for heterosexual couples.
These legislative changes strengthen the legal protection of LGBTQ+-parent families. Same-sex parents now have full parental rights and thus equal rights in areas such as inheritance and custody. In many cases, the stepchild adoption, which was often necessary in the past, is no longer necessary because both partners can be recognized as equal parents – regardless of whether they are married or living in a life partnership.
What risks do LGBTQ+-parent families face?
Inheritance law and social insurance are geared towards the traditional family. Only registered or married partners, biological children and adopted children are legally entitled to an inheritance and a survivor’s pension from OASI, mandatory accident insurance and the pension fund of the deceased.
- Death: If the co-parent of a LGBTQ+-parent family dies, the child has no inheritance rights without adoption and no right to a child’s or orphan’s pension.
- Separation: If the partners separate, an unadopted child has no relationship to the co-parent and their family, no visiting rights, and no child support claims against the co-parent.
Protecting the LGBTQ+-parent family
- Registration of partnership/marriage: Since July 1, 2022, it is no longer possible to register a new partnership. Existing partners can retain their marital status or convert it into a marriage. Marriage at the civil registry office means that the partners are mutually obligated to support each other, have pension entitlements and are entitled to an inheritance and a compulsory share.
- Stepchild adoption: If the second biological parent is unknown, deceased or agrees to the transfer of their rights and obligations, a partner can adopt the partner’s child.
- Pension fund: With a pension fund, it is important to clarify the respective conditions and for each partner to name the other as beneficiary. The individual benefits in the event of death are determined in accordance with the regulatory provisions.
- Pillar: In the event of death, the spouses, registered partners and biological children are entitled to the deceased’s savings capital. This requires the name of the life partner named as beneficiary to be documented in writing at the bank or insurance company. It is also recommended that the beneficiary is documented in a will. Under Pillar 3b, the registered life partner can also be protected in the event of death: with life insurance. It is important that the insurer is informed in writing of the name of the beneficiary.
- Will: If you want to include the children of your spouse or registered partner in your estate planning, it is advisable to draw up a will or have a notarial inheritance contract drawn up.
- Occupational disability insurance: In the event of an accident or occupational disability of a life partner, insurance ensures that the LGBTQ+-parent family continues to receive the same standard of living.
- Life insurance: To protect the LGBTQ+-parent family financially, it makes sense to take out life insurance as a supplement to a will. This allows you to determine who should be the beneficiary in the event of your death – and to what extent.